1. Have a good view of the overall situation. It’s dangerous for a woman to be a wife without such basic values. In order to love is willing to give up everything, is willing to gamble to get love, crazy pursuit of romantic women lack of overall situation. A person can talk about a love vigorously is a thing that can not be met, if fairy tales become an attitude, a habit, a goal of life. This kind of state will make people become more and more selfish, forget their families, forget their friends. Finally, it’s all about hurting yourself, your family and people around you. Women with a holistic view know how to balance their feelings. Love is not the only thing in life.
2. Young and beautiful. In addition to appearance, another important criterion for Chinese men to choose a mate is age. Turn on the newspaper, turn on the TV, you will find that, without exception, the marriage seekers ask the female party to be younger than themselves. Men aged 20-30 generally require the other party to be 1-5 years younger than him, while men aged 30-40 require the other party to be 5-15 years younger. After the age of 40, a man can only find his wife in his daughter or granddaughter generation. Of course, foreign men also pay attention to the age of women, or there will be problems in communication. But they don’t particularly require women to be younger than themselves, and it doesn’t matter how old they are. Therefore, the age range they give in the notice is usually their own age plus or minus 5 years. It also satisfies a man’s sexual life needs.
3. Bring out the facts and reasons. I will never look for a woman who is too assertive, reasonable and mean. I will catch a man to death, criticize the word “private” for a flash, guard against your “bad” movements and drive people to suffocation. This kind of woman is really terrible. Or that kind of woman like cotton cloth clothes, close to the lungs, but also leave a gap, air tight. What do you think of a woman who is aggressive and always looks like “invincible in the East”? What about insight, brains and courage? This kind of woman scares men away before marriage and makes men upset after marriage. A really smart woman will leave her husband room.
4, Tolerance. Men attach more importance to their families and women than women think. They are always used to regard their families and women as safe havens and cozy nests. So they hope that their success and failure can be fully contained here, and they will open their arms to welcome them back no matter when. They also need to be able to tolerate their use of sex toy and sex doll when they need them.
5. Good at talking. Psychologically, men are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. Single men who go out for a drink every night or go to a friend’s house don’t like drinking or being very close to their friends. Their real reason is that they are afraid of being alone. So married men have good reason to believe that they should not feel lonely and lonely again. So when men lose their women’s whereabouts, or when they return late or even not, they are scared like naked nuns in a busy market.
6. Silence and never brings trouble. Domestic ugliness should not be publicized. The right and wrong of the family is a thing that can’t be said clearly. If we add in the gossip of the outside world, the self-esteem of men will collapse completely. At that time, even if the man is willing to reconcile, it is difficult to ride the tiger. If a woman really wants to solve the problem, her only choice is to close the door and discuss slowly. Because the principle of men’s domestic affairs is: no outside interference in internal affairs.