The collapse of happiness is not caused by one or two small things, but by the accumulation of many factors, the gradual erosion of marriage. So, what are the factors that destroy marriage after marriage? I have summed up a few points for you, hoping to enlighten you and avoid the unfortunate consequences of marriage.
Don’t care about your husband
In the period of passionate love, men tend to take more care of women. After marriage, men are busy with their careers. Under the increasing social pressure, men hardly care about their health. Many white-collar workers often stay up late to work overtime in order to buy houses and make money. If women still don’t care about men at this time, your emotions are gradually alienated. When men feel like looking for them in this home Can marriage go on without warmth?
Not having sex for years
Each of you will use a sex toy or a sex doll to meet your sexual needs, when you get along with each other day and night, you don’t have the passion of that year, and you can’t bring up sexual interest in sexual life. For a long time, making love is a routine task, and even some couples don’t make love at all. As the number of sexual activities continues to decrease, both the body and brain will begin to adapt to the “zero intimacy” of marriage, and finally may be “asexual”. Although it can not be said that sexual life determines the level of sexual happiness in marriage, to a certain extent, the quality of sexual life is indeed crucial. Some netizens complained that they had bought a dynamic condom, but it had not been used up yet, so we can imagine the frequency of sexual life.
Too busy at work and too little communication with each other
It’s true that white-collar workers are under a lot of pressure. They are busy every day. They still work overtime after work in the evening. There are few opportunities to communicate with their partners, let alone chat and talk with each other. You can’t get the little news from your lover all day long. At the beginning, you will make him anxious and lose. After a long time, he will be calm and his feelings will turn red. No matter how busy the day is, couples should use all kinds of methods to contact.
Used to be alone
After marriage, women take the responsibility of caring for their husbands and children. In order to save money at home, they buy discount items. In the eyes of men, it seems that all these are women’s responsibilities. As long as they make money, they will get rid of more responsibilities, such as repairing furniture, cleaning and so on. For a long time, which woman can support this life? I wish you good health.