I have been in love with my boyfriend for half a year. We are planning to spend the rest of our lives with us. Although we are not young, we have no plans to get married. He said that when you get married, you can listen to me. I think that our business is still unstable, and psychological preparation is not enough. I want to marry in a year or two.
The point is that he always asks for sexual relations with me (we don’t have cohabitation), and each time shows a strong desire. I can’t say that he is just to be satisfied. In the process, he also realizes that he loves me.
I am thinking of more people, always worried that too much sex life will be risky. One risk is that I am afraid of unwanted pregnancies. I am quite reluctant to marry. There is also a fear that risk is that I am afraid of gynecological diseases myself, or I am worried that I will get infertility.
I have been mired in these worries, and sometimes even impulsively want to use a separate period of time to reduce sex life, of course, there is no courage to put into action. I want to get some advice, how to solve this problem, how do couples who are not married in love have solved this problem?
What do you think of it?