Well now, in a survey of more than 2,000 readers worldwide, we found that women are waiting for us to teach them how to go crazy and out of bounds: more than 90% of women show a strong desire, 70% of them Some people have the urge to try these weird ideas.
And the other 21.5% of the women faced these weird thoughts, and they were very excited. “If they are in bed, they should ask me this!” If it is really useful, don’t call it “weird thoughts”. Think of it as a kind of entertainment that will make it easier for you to get happy, and throw your doubts about it out of the clouds.
I. Bonding, ordering, obedience, abuse
Don’t be surprised by the abbreviation of the initials of several words, B, D, S, and M stand for binding, order, obedience, and abuse. Now let’s look at the letters B and D, which are bundles and commands, which may be more fashionable than you think.
“When she was restrained, that strong sexual desire would excite them, and many women were very interested in this practice,” said Carol, MD. She is a sexologist, and also runs a sex toy store herself and runs it well. “Their rebellion will give them an impulse, and when they are bound and bound, a good show is about to take place.”
First: When you are playing around, cover your head with her with your hand, so that she can’t move. If she likes it, then you should consider how to further control her. She grabbed a tie, her silk scarf, or a pair of stockings and tied her gently. Then bundle, don’t stop, be sure to slow down.
Yelling loudly can make you play more vigorously. “It’s up to you personally to scream hard,” said Emma Taylor, one of the co-authors of “The Nervous Guide to Sexual Life.” Son. “This is your sex additive. If she laughs, you laugh with her. Let her keep moaning.
Then: let’s listen to the advice of Alder, a sex researcher, “BDSM may be dangerous for those who have little experience in this area or are too enthusiastic about BDSM. It is important to understand beforehand Check this knowledge so as not to hurt the other party. “Before you start, you should instill the word” safe “in your head, so that you can grasp the time and proportion when you play.
Second Sex Video
Don’t hope too much first. In our survey, only 15% of women will record their activities in the bedroom, probably because they are afraid that other people will see it too. “They were curious about what she was like when she was full of passion, and that was the most natural person in her life,” said Candida, author of “How to Tell the Naked He How to Do”.
You can try if she can accept sexual video this way, but there is no guarantee of success. If she is nervous but very cooperative, you should give her the strap as soon as you are done, or destroy it when the excitement between you passes. If you absolutely want to save it, lock it up, and don’t let it be copied.
First: “Try to forget the strap,” Candida said. “We can connect a video recorder to a TV,” she said. “It’s best to put the screen at an appropriate angle so that we can see ourselves even when we are most passionate. In the beginning, we can Consider using more secure still-life cameras, digital or polaroids. This will also ensure that beginners are protected from or are less frightened.
Then: Sex is a wonderful experience, but when we look directly at it, we may not get used to it. “Don’t hang photography lights on the ceiling,” Candida said. “It creates shadows, and when the lamp is above your head, it may look ugly,” said Robert M.D. The clinical sexologist also reminded us that when men are intoxicated with visual impact, “women trust the hearing more. The greater the moaning and shouting, the more women can enjoy it.”
Three, role-playing
Two people can change various role relationships, such as boss and secretary, teacher and student, cleaner and occupant, but all of this must have a theme, such as one of them is weak and the other is to him or she gives infinite tolerance and mercy. This is a powerful motivation that can even improve your health and interesting sexual relationships between you.
First of all: we can have this feeling of change in the bedroom. “Putting on different underwear, it seemed like I was a different person on the bed, becoming very erotic, crazy, and mighty,” Kun said. Go to a bar that you are not familiar with, and you can give yourself different feelings in public.
I arrived 20 minutes earlier than her, and then made the appearance that neither of you knew anyone. If you can design a story for you “for the first time”, do it. In addition, it is more interesting to design an ambiguous scene for the other party when they meet with you by name, profession, etc. Then you found each other and hugged more passionately than usual.
Then: Play a little prank “Let her forget”. Wear a dress she has never seen before and spray different colognes, because the smell is always tightly tied to memory. All you have to do is make her forget who you are. Try to make yourself happy, of course, not the kind of hysteria. For example, if you work in sales, then you act as a traveling salesman, throw her alone at home, and let her be a lonely waiting wife at home. A rapid sexual storm will make it difficult for you all to extricate yourself.
- Sex Toys
Sex toys, be aware that when you are not with her, she may have used something like an oscillator. This is sex toys. “Men may be most worried about whether they will be replaced from now on, or women indulge in it, and later, even if they want women to reach orgasm, they can’t do it,” said Johnson, an experienced sex therapist.
First: Start with a bath and prepare a bottle of massage oil. The way to make a woman feel intense physical stimulation is usually in conjunction with non-traditional sexual activities. The best time to use sex toys is on Friday night. A full set of tools includes a bath ball, orange mango body oil, massage liquid, and a magical mini oscillator. Tell her that she will be given a new toy whenever she is ready.
Afterward: Her orgasm may come at any time. “If this woman uses an oscillator, when you enter her body, she can reach orgasm very quickly,” said Luo Yali. She recommended to us the oscillator with a simple outline. Although its design is very sexy, it looks very warm.
When we pulled a group of usually well-behaved girls to the oscillator, they all felt very interesting. So what does a man feel like?
- The “exposure” with just the right size
“The tremor after being noticed by passers-by is definitely related to the focus of so many eyes,” Kun said. “For women, it’s a feeling that puts them at the center, feeling that they are attractive and sexy, even though they look really different from ordinary people.”
First: When you rush out of the room wearing a skirt, make a decision immediately, take advantage of any opportunity, and at the same time help yourself realize your desire to show. “After a quick meal, I was going to accompany a friend for a drink. When I hurried to change clothes, I suddenly decided not to wear that underwear,” said Karen, a 25-year-old female writer. “I thought that if the light in the bar wasn’t that dim and we didn’t drink that much, maybe nothing happened, but I’m still happy to do it.”
And then: outdoor sex. “You have to make sure you are completely awake and you have to think about how much sexual experience you have,” Kun said. “When exposed almost completely without privacy, those poor teenage sexual experiences like teenagers can’t help worrying about them.”
