1. Express your ideas directly to girls: Greek sexologist Niki Haya said that although women express their feelings euphemistically, they all like direct men, so expressing love directly to her can improve the success rate. Helen Fisher, a professor of sexology at Rutgers University in New Jersey, further pointed out that men should keep confident posture in front of women. When sitting, keep an open posture, legs apart, head up, chest out, straight back. Stand with your shoulders toward the woman and turn your head toward the person you are talking to. This is also a kind of self-confidence in their sexual ability. In addition, mimicking certain actions of a woman can also signal your interest in her, for example, when she drinks a drink, you also take a sip.
2. When sending out an invitation to have sex, it should be natural and can’t help it: This is the advice given by Emily dubley, a British sexologist. When sending out an invitation to a female partner, it’s better not to be too intentional. For example, after a affectionate kiss, say to her, “you really suck me, let’s go to the bedroom to have a intimate relationship.” In this way, it’s all natural. Women don’t think that men only think about sex. So you can have a good sexual life，and sex toy can be used appropriately to add fun.
3. When you have sex, don’t go straight to the subject. Foreplay is like investment. The earlier you start, the more you will gain: PAM sperr said, “foreplay is the only way for a woman to reach orgasm.” Pay attention to the details of the foreplay: South African sexologist Caroline Herry points out that when you have sex, don’t go straight to the subject, try to touch her hair when you kiss your partner, exhale in her ear, or gently kiss her eyelids. For women, gentleness and consideration are the most important factors.
4. Awaken all her senses (breath, voice, touch): according to the survey, 30% of men hope to capture women’s body and mind better and faster. The secret to this is to try something that will activate at least three senses at a time. According to Marta, an Italian sexologist, this requires men to make full use of breath, taste and voice. Sonia Pereira dukey, a clinical psychologist in Lisbon, suggests holding your partner in your arms as you approach a mirror so she can see you kissing and caressing her all over. Or play her favorite record, spray her favorite perfume in the bedroom, put some fruit or chocolate on the head of the bed. Sex toys are also a good choice.
There is also a tried and true way: make spa for her. When the warm water flows on her head, gently scratch her scalp with the fingertips, which can release oxytocin in her body and help deepen the emotional connection.